There have now been several different versions of this workshop, and this is an index of the different versions.
2002: Original version, then newly invented, run by me (Jennifer) at BiCon 2002.
Here are some additional bits of info from that running of it:
"Everyone seems..." exercise
"Subgroups" list
"Coming out as..." exercise
Contemporaneous with that write-up, I did an article about my ideas on running workshops in general.
2003: Version run by Wechsler at BiCon. By all accounts this wasn't very similar to the original - just took the same name.
Some year thenabouts: Fitting and Misfitting at Queer Pagan Camp, run by Vron, using a format slightly adapted from the original.
2005: run four times at BiCon, with iterative improvements! If you're running it now, this is the version you probably want.
Related to that, there's The challenge of designing something replicable: some reflections from 2005 on writing up a format for someone else to lead from.
2006-2012: not sure exactly which BiCons which did have a version of it & which didn't. 2008 definitely did, and it ran twice or more at 2011, one of which was led by Karen. None of these was led by me.
2013: Fitting and Misfitting in bi/bdsm space, run by me and Beth at Grant's BDSM bisexuals weekend.